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things i made that you can keep.

i make a few things you can download. some are for ace people, some are for your reading, some are planners for 2027, and the money ones are spreadsheets for bills and budgets. you get each file right after you pay, through gumroad.

for ace people

  • the ace pride stickers $5 twelve ace pride stickers in soft pastel colors. you print them at home, cut them out, and put them on a laptop or a journal.
  • the telling them i’m ace planner $6 a printable planner for telling someone you’re asexual. you pick who to tell and in what order, and you write the words down before the talk.
  • the am i ace? journal $8 a printable journal for when you’re wondering if you might be asexual. it’s questions, with no quiz and no score, and you decide what the answers mean.
  • the closeness map $7 a printable map for two people. you each mark the kinds of touch and closeness you like with yes, maybe or no, then read it together. there’s nothing sexual on it.
  • the ace bookmarks $4 six bookmarks with the ace flag stripes and a heart, to print at home and cut out. the backs have lines for the book, the dates and your stars.

for love and friendship

  • the limerence journal $8 a 30-night journal for when you can’t stop thinking about someone. you fill in one page a night, and at the end of the month you read it back.
  • the friendship journal $5 six pages for keeping up with the people you care about: your friends, their birthdays, time together, and who to reach out to this week.

for your reading

  • the reading tracker spreadsheet $6 if you want to count your reading year, i made a reading tracker spreadsheet. you add each book, and it adds up your goal, your pages, and your genres.
  • the monthly reading tracker $4 if you’d rather track it on paper, i made a monthly reading tracker you can print. it’s three pages and undated, so the same file works every month.
  • the printable reading journal $8 if you want somewhere to keep what each book made you feel, i made a printable reading journal. there’s a page for every book, with room for the tropes, the line you’re keeping, and the kinds of love in it.
  • the 2027 reading challenge $6 pick how many books you want to read in 2027 and fill in a slot each time you finish one. a square turns gold for every book.

for 2027 and the school year

  • the 2027 year in pixels $6 a year in pixels you don’t color by hand. pick a mood each day, and the square turns that color.
  • the essay planner $5 for the essay you have to write and can’t start. you plan the argument, the paragraphs, and the word count first.
  • the 2027 goal planner $7 your goals for 2027, broken down by quarter and by month, with a habit page for every month. 32 pages, with the real 2027 dates.
  • the 2027 workout log $5 one row for each exercise, and it counts your sessions, your streaks and your personal bests for you.
  • the semester planner $5 your courses, every assignment and exam, and what’s due next. type a mark when it comes back, and it shows what you still need for the grade you want.
  • the 2027 habit tracker $4 ten habits and a square for every day of the year. you type an x, the square fills in, and it counts your streaks.
  • the 2027 mood tracker $5 one calendar a month with the real 2027 dates, and a small heart for each day that you color in by how it felt.

for your money

the guides i wrote

  • the words for it $12 the workbook version of everything on this site. 47 pages, two files, $12.
  • the one-person studio $49 the editing half of this channel is done by a setup i built with claude. i wrote down how, for anyone who has a job they’ve done three times and hated.

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